A man who heard me speak on marriage decided to apply my suggestion that men use every instance of sexual temptation as an opportunity to actively do something honouring for their wives. In other words, let temptation be a reminder to pay attention to their marriages.
Our culture has bought into two lies about pornography:
- Most guys look at porn. It’s normal behaviour.
- Porn does not hurt anyone. It’s no big deal.
- Nobody wakes up one day and suddenly decides to begin an extramarital affair.
- Infidelity begins in the heart and mind. By the time a person physically commits adultery, he or she has been indulging for quite some time in progressively more intense mental and emotional affairs.