first five years


Marriage is not a competitive sport

Written by Jamie Driggers

Back when my husband was just some guy I knew, he and his buddies had a complex scoring method for rating their behavior on a date. They gave points for belching (-1), door holding (+2), swearing (-2), letting the girl pick the music (+1) and any other random action the wingman chose to tally. Ending the evening in the positive column theoretically meant the girl would be impressed enough for another date.

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Something blue?

Written by Emily Osburne

Ashley’s “happily ever after” didn’t feel so happy.

Although she loved her new husband dearly, the first few months after their wedding were not the fairy-tale life she had imagined.

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Border protection

Written by Dr. John Townsend

Rachel called into the radio show co-host with a problem. “It’s my mother-in-law,” she said. “She is critical of me, no matter what I do. She doesn’t like my cooking, or the way I clean house, or how I take care of my husband, Don. I try and try to please her, but she always has something negative to say.”

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The beauty of “having enough”

Written by Patrick Dunn

Shawn and Cheryl Nicholson* save every receipt and track expenses with a spreadsheet. They have to, if they want to stay afloat financially. The excess income of former high-paying jobs has vanished, and debt continues to drain their budget.

Yet Shawn and Cheryl are financially free.

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Does the honeymoon have to end?

Written by Sandi Greene

One night during our engagement, my fiancé, Bob, and I went out for dinner with his parents. His dad unlocked the passenger-side door of the car for his mom without opening it then walked around to the driver’s side. Bob’s mom noticed this, of course, and sarcastically pronounced, “Well, I guess the honeymoon’s over!”

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