aging parents
Leaving behind memories
Written by Ray Seldomridge
After my father died at 66, I found only one letter from him summarizing his life’s journey. My senses still happily recall the sights and sounds of my days with him. But, sadly, I have no other record of his thoughts and feelings throughout all his years on earth.
When caregiving roles reverse
Written by Carol Heffernan
Within a brief span of time, adult children can find themselves responsible for Mom and Dad. Watching a parent grow vulnerable and dependent is an uncomfortable transition.
Bound by hope
Written by Denise Budd Rumble
A crippling stroke ended his life as he knew it — he was 55. In spite of hard work, determination and a good attitude, the results of therapy were disappointing. Instead of being able to converse with passers by as he worked in his garden, it was now a major event just to get outside.
Bittersweet birthday
Written by Deb Kalmbach
“Happy birthday dear Robert, happy birthday to me.” Dad’s voice boomed through the Mexican restaurant, singing louder than the rest of the family at his 80th celebration. His candles flickered on the chocolate cake we had brought from home. Dad beamed with delight as he blew out every candle.
Growing up, not apart
Written by Amanda Smith Regier
Last spring, in a fit of age-induced insanity, my father took the entire family skydiving to mark his 60th birthday. From the ledge of a plane, I watched my sister and her fiancé freefall from 14,000 feet.
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