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PK HOME | ARCHIVES | WEBSITES | PARENTING PKs | Q&A
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PARENTING PKS
The 10 Commandments for Parenting PKs:
- We need as much or more time from our parents as the rest of the people in the congregation.
- We don’t want to be held responsible for our parents’ reputations.
- We don’t want to always be your sermon examples - if you need the odd one, be sure to ask for our permission.
- We don’t want to hear about problem people or problem situations in the church. Talk about that stuff in private so that it doesn't taint our views of church.
- We don’t want to feel like we have to serve in the church just because we are the pastor’s kids.
- We don’t want to be held to a higher standard than any other kids in our church.
- We don’t want to be seen as the exemplary kids; we just want to be normal.
- We want to be loved for the individuals we are.
- We want to be prayed for as kids, not PKs.
- We want to be taught as kids, not PKs.
ARTICLE
[+] Into the Fire
Rachel Friesen, an adult PK, is now raising little PKs of her own! She shares insights and tips on how to best navigate this parenting journey. READ MORE
SUGGESTED RESOURCES
But Mom, I Don't Want to Move!
Susan Miller gives mothers practical guidance for making a smooth transition to a new home, school and community.
Why Christian Kids Rebel: Trading Heartache for Hope
Few things in life are as painful as having your Christian child rebel against your spiritual lifestyle. Discover how timid reactions to moral crises and lack of authenticity could be the very things that repel children from our faith - and what you can do about it.
Kids in Crisis: When PKs Become Prodigals
Raising kids in a pastor’s home doesn't always guarantee a perfect result. When a child departs from what you've taught and modelled, how do you find hope again? Join H.B. London Jr. and his guests as they bring understanding to the process of raising kids in a less-than-perfect world.
801 Questions Kids Ask About God
Kids ask amazing, often difficult, questions about God, faith and the Bible. The thoughtful answers within the pages of this valuable resource will not leave you at a loss for words. A compilation of the best of the 101 Questions Kids Ask series, this extensive and fun reference is a great tool for passing on a Christian legacy.
Pastors as Parents - CD by Rev. H.B. London Jr.
H.B. London Jr. and his guests discuss the delicate balance of priorities needed for successful parenting in the pastorate. Topics include transparent parenting, not majoring on minor issues, putting family first and how to grow beyond a family crisis. You and your spouse will find practical wisdom for shepherding your children. To obtain a free copy, please call CCN at 1.888.5.CLERGY.
*To order, click on the titles above or call Focus on the Family Canada at 1.800.661.9800.
WHO WE ARE
The Clergy Care Network exists to help pastoral families across Canada. Many pastors and their spouses contact us with parenting questions. Let us know how we can be of assistance to you. We offer counselling, referrals, resources, a listening ear and prayer. Contact us at 1.888.5.CLERGY or info@clergycare.ca.
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Hi, my name is Karen and I’m a counsellor who was a pastor’s wife for a season in my life. If you have any questions or concerns you want to talk about, or if you’d just like someone to pray with you, please email or call me at 1-888-525-3749. It’s a free call and you can remain anonymous if you choose. I promise to listen and do my best to support you. If I don’t know the answer to a question, I’ll ask some PKs I know to help me with an answer.
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